Four More Years of Unchecked Misogyny
SOPHIE GILBERT
Strange
as this might be to say of the only American president found legally
liable for sexual abuse, the only leader of the free world accused of
dangling a TV gig in front of a porn performer seemingly as an
enticement for sex, the only commander in chief to publicly denigrate
the sexual attractiveness of both Heidi Klum (“no longer a 10”) and
Angelina Jolie (“not a great beauty”), I don’t believe Donald Trump
hates women. Not by default, anyway. “When it comes to the women who are
not only dutifully but lovingly catering to his desires,” the
philosopher Kate Manne wrote in her 2017 book, Down Girl, “what’s to
hate?”
The misogyny that Trump embodies and champions is less
about loathing than enforcement: underscoring his requirement that women
look and behave a certain way, that we comply with his desires and
submit to our required social function. The more than 25 women who have
accused Trump of sexual assault or misconduct (which he has denied), and
the countless more who have endured public vitriol and threats to their
life after being targeted by him, have all been punished either for
challenging him or for denying him what he fundamentally believed was
his due.
At the micro level, Trump’s misogyny can be almost
comical, in an absurdist sort of way, like the time in 1994 when he
fretted over whether his new infant daughter would inherit her mother’s
breasts, or when he tweeted to Cher in 2012, “I promise not to talk
about your massive plastic surgeries that didn’t work.” On a larger
scale, the legislative and cultural shifts he fostered during his four
years in the White House are so drastic that they’re hard to fully
parse. Until 2022, women and pregnant people had the constitutional
right to an abortion; now, thanks to Trump’s remade Supreme Court,
abortion is unavailable or effectively banned in about a third of
states. The MAGA Republican Party is ever more of a boy’s club: All 14
representatives who announced bids to become House speaker after the
ouster of Kevin McCarthy were men; the victor, Mike Johnson, has blamed
Roe v. Wade in the past for depriving the country of “able-bodied
workers” to prop up the American economy. Online and off, old-fashioned
sexists and trollish provocateurs alike have been emboldened by Trump’s
ability to say grotesque things without consequences.
Trump’s
glee in smacking down women has filtered into every aspect of our
culture. If, as the literary critic Lionel Trilling wrote, “ideology is
not acquired by thought but by breathing the haunted air,” then Trump
has helped radicalize swaths of a generation essentially through
poisonous fumes. He didn’t create the manosphere, the fetid corner of
the internet devoted to sending women back to the Stone Age. But he
elevated some of its most noxious voices into the mainstream, and
vindicated their worst prejudices. “I’m in a state of exuberance that we
now have a President who rates women on a 1–10 scale in the same way
that we do,” wrote the former self-described pickup artist Roosh V on
his website shortly after the election.
By now, misogyny has bled
into virtually every part of the internet. TikTok clips featuring
Andrew Tate, the misogynist influencer and accused rapist and human
trafficker who has said that women should bear some personal
responsibility for their sexual assaults and frequently derides women as
“hoes,” have been viewed billions of times. (Tate has denied the
charges against him.) In 2021, before Elon Musk bought Twitter and
oversaw a spike in misogynistic and abusive content—not to mention
reinstating the accounts of both Trump and Tate—the Tesla entrepreneur
and men’s-rights icon tweeted that he was going to inaugurate a new
college called the Texas Institute of Technology & Science (TITS).
Boys on social media are being inundated with messaging that the only
qualities worth prizing in women are sexual desirability and
submission—a worldview that aligns perfectly with Trump’s. Misogyny, as
my colleague Franklin Foer wrote in Slate in 2016, is the one ideology
Trump has never changed, his one unwavering credo. Seeking to dominate
others with his supposed sexual prowess and loudly professing disgust at
women he doesn’t desire has been his modus operandi for decades. Any
woman who challenges him is “a big, fat pig,” “a dog,” a “horseface.”
What
would four more years of Trump mean for women? It’s hard to conclude
that Trump was moderated by the presence of his daughter in the West
Wing, exactly—or, for that matter, by any of the advisers who thought
they could temper his worst instincts before they ended up fleeing in
droves. But what’s most chilling about a possible second Trump
presidency is that he would certainly now be unchecked. The advisers who
remain are the ones who bolster his darker impulses. It was Trump’s
adviser Jason Miller, Axios’s Mike Allen reported, who psyched him up
between segments of his 2023 CNN town hall as he became more and more
aggressive toward the moderator, Kaitlan Collins. “Are you ready? Can I
talk? Do you mind?” Trump jeered at her. Anyone who’s ever witnessed an
abusive relationship could instantly recognize the tone.
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